Filial Duty
Filial Duty, Chapter 9: Government by the Sage
Serving fellow officials with respect and cooperation fulfills the social dimension of filial duty.
Translation
CHAPTER IX
GOVERNMENT BY THE SAGE
Tsêng Tzŭ asked: “Is filial piety the highest of all the virtues
possessed by a great sage?” To this Confucius replied: “There is
nothing so great in the world as man, and there is nothing so great
in a man as filial piety. The first duty of a son is to venerate his
parent, and in order to show reverence for his dead father he has to
offer him sacrifice when he offers sacrifices to Heaven. A man who had
done this was the Duke of Chou. When he offered sacrifices to Heaven
in a suburban district, he also offered a sacrifice to his deceased
ancestor Hou Chi, and when he offered sacrifice to Heaven at the temple
named Ming Tang, he also made one to his deceased father Wên Wang.
His good action produced such an effect that all the feudal barons at
that time came to assist him in performing the ceremony of offering
sacrifice to Heaven. It is therefore evident that there is nothing so
great in human nature as filial piety. The feeling of affection is
fostered during the time of infancy, and from that affection springs
reverence. Since every man has a natural reverence, the great sages
of the time teach him how and when to show it; and since he has a
natural feeling of affection, they teach him when and how to cultivate
it. As the teachings of these sages are based on the principle of
filial piety, their doctrine is propagated without effort, and their
government is effectual without resorting to force. The affection
between a father and a son is natural, and also a source from which
springs the reverence which a minister ought to show to his sovereign.
When parents have a son born to them, the regular line of descent in
the family is thereby secured. This is the greatest duty in family
life. We must treat our parents with the same reverence as is shown
to our sovereign, because we receive boundless kindness from them and
are under a natural obligation to do so. If any one does not love his
parents, but others, he is a rebel against virtue; and if any one
does not respect his parents, but others, he is also a rebel against
the standard of rites. Any action which is against the law of nature
will certainly not be an example for the public; and any one who gets
a high position, such as that of a ruler, by undue influence instead
of by good actions, will be despised by good men. As to the latter,
they say what they ought to say, and do what they think is good for
the public. Their virtue and justice are estimable, their actions are
worthy of being followed, their behaviour is creditable, and their
manner is correct in every way. If such persons are rulers of a state,
they will afford to the people a good example to follow and will also
inspire them with reverence and affection. This is principally the
cause of their being successful in propagating their doctrines, and
in effectually carrying on their government. Do you not remember what
is said in the Shih Ching?—‘Look at that good man. How correct his
behaviour is!’”
Practical Reading
Serving fellow officials with respect and cooperation fulfills the social dimension of filial duty. You cannot honor your parents in isolation—your conduct toward colleagues and peers is also a reflection on your family.
A practical habit: before speaking critically of a colleague, consider whether you would say it in front of your parents. The standard sounds extreme, but it points to a real question—does your public conduct make your family proud, or do you compartmentalize and act differently in different contexts?